Wednesday, May 28, 2008

Cardio Coach -- ever heard of it?

A few years ago (I guess in 2004 -- boy the years keep flying by, don't they?) I heard on the VF Forum about a new audio workout called Cardio Coach. I'd done a few audio yoga workouts before and enjoyed them. You have to know what you're doing with yoga to follow along well without a visual, but it's peaceful and personal. With cardio, I wasn't sure how it would work.

The concept is that there are many ways to get your cardio exercise in on your own -- running, walking, cycling, tread mill, elliptical, or any of the cardio machines at the health club or at home. But sometimes people get bored (or lazy) with exercising alone and may not push themselves to new heights. Cardio Coach does just that -- guides you along so you make the most of your time doing cardio.

My two favorite methods of cardio exercise at home are the step and the rebounder. I would run (did for years in college), but we live in the forest on narrow windy roads and it's just not safe to go running right out my door (not to mention the mountain lions seen several times next door :)). I usually use Cathe's step video workouts for stepping, but haven't really found any rebounding videos that I want to do over and over every week. (FitPrime G-Force and Cardiolates are the only rebounding dvds I've enjoyed, but I probably do them each once a month). I had been searching for more rebounding options since it's so much easier on my knees than stepping. I use the Reboundair rebounder by the way.

Sean O'Malley (THE cardio coach!) is an expert fitness trainer (can "expert" be an adjective?) who talks you through your cardio workout from before you begin, into the warm-up, steady state cardio, hills, sprints, and intervals throughout. One thing I like is that he always lets you know how many minutes you'll spend on each section. You don't have to wonder, "How much longer?" as you sprint like crazy. You know in advance, "Okay, I just have 2 minutes -- I can do this!" Finally Sean helps you cool down and stretch (and hear some words of motivation at the end). It's a pleasant balance of coaching and leaving you alone with the music for the most part to get your work done. Some talking, but not too much (and no hype -- it's all done in a nice mellow way). He calls Cardio Coach a "guided workout series." Perfect way to describe it. I've missed running or swimming laps over the years because I liked that tuning out with my thoughts while I did cardio. Cardio Coach allows me to do that without tuning out from challenging my body.

Right now, Sean has 7 volumes of Cardio CDs and one that includes weights as well -- the earlier ones are shorter, the most recent one is the longest. His 8th volume will be available for download sometime soon. He used to sell the downloads and/or a professionally produced & packaged CD. This is still available for the first 6 volumes. Now he just makes the CD-Rs for sale plus the MP3 downloads. This probably saves in production costs and allows him to make more great workouts for us. He just awarded some free downloads of volume 8 to a small group of people (first ones who e-mailed him about it). I was late to the party, but a friend from my VF check-in group (Vee) got one and gave a fun review. She loves it. Can't wait to try it myself.

I just barely downloaded Volume 7. I'll try it out tomorrow and will let you know how I like it. So far, I've only done the workouts with the CD playing in my stereo. I want to use my Sony MP3 player to see how that is. I think it will be even better with full volume capacity. I can't turn it up too loud in the morning on the stereo since most of my family are still sleeping. Somehow they sleep through the sound of my rebounder though -- thank heavens for that!

Sean also has a cardio/weights circuit audio program called Cardio Coach Pump! It sounds like it would be great to take to the weight room in the gym. (I may try it someday if I ever get tired of doing my strength work with Cathe and Debbie. With Cathe's STS coming soon, that will probably be awhile).

I'll set a little goal for myself to review each of my Cardio Coaches here in the next little while. I have volumes 3, 4, 5, 6, and 7. (Does it drive you crazy that I wrote all five instead of just saying 3-7? It looks like more to me when I list each one :)). I would have bought 1 and 2 when I ordered most of these, but the others had better reviews -- now 1 and 2 have been revised and the reviews are great. I'll probably eventually get them too. I need to do them all again so I can remember which is which! They are similar, but each have their own time frame and schedule. Until then, you can check out the reviews on VF if you'd like. Here's the link for reviews on the first 6 volumes. 1 and 2 might be the older volumes and it looks like the volume 6 reviewed was another version with Candace. I'm not sure how that one was different. I remember hearing that there were 2 different versions, but I never ordered that one. Take it from me that the one with Sean is excellent though. :) I don't know if you love reading reviews as much as I do before I purchase (and sometimes even after), but here's a review page from the Cardio Coach website that has specific reviews for the first 7 volumes by Paige Waehner, a fitness reviewer at About.com. There are also links to multiple reviews by fitness magazines and big city newspapers on his home page. I know you'd rather read my reviews (*wink*) so I'll make that a goal for this and next week -- to do all the volumes I have and post about them. Should be fun!

Also, Sean's CD packaging is pretty spectacular. You get full information on the workout and guidelines on how to use it. Here's an example of the six-fold cardboard Volume 3's CD case:



Hopefully that will line up well! Don't you love the illustration of Sean? Pretty fun. I wish they'd post bigger like the one at the top so you could see all the detail in instructions. Maybe you can find a way to zoom in on it. Maybe I'll try later to add pixels to the photos or something. I've had that work in the past, but don't have time for it today. Check back later to see if you're interested. (Update, tried one thing and so far, no luck -- it gets bigger, but is very blurry. I guess you can just get the general idea, then buy your own to see the details :))

What else . . . (think, think, think). Oh, Sean has a spot on his website for sending comments . I wrote something to him a few weeks ago and heard back from him right away. He's e-mailed twice and is super personable and helpful. He truly takes his job as fitness coach to heart!

Sunday, May 25, 2008

Great Abs are Made in the Kitchen?

This is a phrase I often see on Beachbody's forum. Maybe it's one of their phrases used often by Team Beachbody coaches or termed by one of their instructors. I'm not sure. "Great abs are made in the kitchen." I do know that it means you can do all the ab work/ core work in the world, but if you're eating poorly, you'll never have toned abs or a slim core. Well, maybe I shouldn't say "never." There are obviously teenagers, young people who's eating habits haven't caught up to them. But that isn't the case forever. And that's not who I'm talking about anyway. I'm talking about most people who don't naturally have abs like this:

As much as I love Cathe Friedrich, I've never sought after those six-pack abs like she and so many fitness experts have. I like this Fit Couture ad with just strong lean abs -- not necessarily all muscle-y. That's never really been my goal. But I would like to be as lean in my core as I am in my hands and feet. Marilu Henner calls it in her books "the animal you were meant to be" as she talks about watching a mountain lion or horse move -- they have these amazing strong bodies that move with agility and grace. They don't have excess fat slowing them down. They are the animals they were meant to be and we can be the same. Each of us has a different shape, but can be lean and strong within that shape. I have a small frame -- small bone structure. So even though I may look lean with clothes on, I still have a few more inches I'd like to lose in my abdominal area. Dr. Mehmet Oz talks about how the excess fat on our waists is a greater indicator than overall weight in our health risks. It's not just about how we look or how comfortable we feel in our clothes anymore.

So back to the kitchen statement. Is that where great abs are made? It could be. The point is that food affects your abdominal area more that sit-ups, Pilates, or stability ball exercises (as great as all of those are for your core muscles). I find that the decision with eating comes earlier than the kitchen. For me, great abs are made in the grocery store. If I can convince myself NOT to purchase certain foods at the store, I have a much easier time making smart choices in the kitchen. If my pantry and fridge are filled with foods that our "just for my kids" or that are to "have one hand for occasional treats," I'll quickly change those intentions for those foods once I'm home and will eat far more than my share. The best example of this are the Clif bar products. I've bought Luna Bars by the cases, intending to only have one every so often when I'm not eating raw or when I'm travelling or to have them for my daughters to take to high school for snacks or lunches. And I'll eat 3 in a day! What a waste of money and a disservice to my body. That soy protein isolate is not the healthiest choice - - especially in excess. I've had digestive problems to remind myself (yet do I remember?) The same is true for regular Clif Bars, Builder Bars, and Z Bars. If I have them around, I eat them. I've bought them for Christmas stockings and will eat the stash far weeks before Christmas arrives.

Thus I've had to control myself at the store so I don't have to deal with the temptation once I get home. I used to fight this with ice cream or chocolate chips. I'd have to avoid those aisles at the store because I knew I'd buy some and eat them when it was causing my body all sorts of problems. Now I've been away from those foods for so long that I can handle walking down the aisle if I need something else nearby. I'm not quite there with the Clif products yet, so I have to stay away and really work on it at the store. I think I've gotten past it with Kettle Chips (and Boulder Chips or any other yummy natural potato chips). I used to by those for "picnics" and the like, then would eat them on the way home from the store. Couldn't handle the temptation.

I guess I'm a healthfood junkfood junkie. But I'm recognizing that weakness and am handling it at the store before it even has a chance to get to my kitchen. I still have to make wise choices in the kitchen, but if I can make good decisions in the store when the package is closed, I won't have nearly as much to battle in the kitchen - - just a wide array of whole foods to eat and enjoy.

I'm also realizing post-40 that the more I bake, the more I weigh, regardless of how I exercise. So I have to limit my baking too. I love to bake. I love the warmth and the aromas. But I also love to fit in my jeans. If I weigh this in my mind before I turn on the oven, I do better than weighing that when the bread is coming out of the oven. Great abs are made in the early stages of eating - - in the store, in the planning, in every step of the way -- but the earlier, the better.

I love seeing how I've grown in my journey to better eating. I'm still not perfect with it and may never be. But I get stronger and better with my choices as time goes on. That's nice to see.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Get yourself a co-op group!

Several years ago, when my teenage daughters were toddlers, I was in need of time out with my husband, but didn't have much money for a babysitter. Some friends of mine formed a co-op babysitting group, which worked great. Three other couples joined with us to babysit once a month for everyone else's children. The plan was to bring your children to their home fed and dressed in pajamas at 6:30. We'd also bring a small blanket for each child. The children would play for an hour or more, then would lie down for movie on their blanket. Often the younger children would fall asleep -- the older ones would have fun watching the movie late together. The parents would come back by 10:00. This gave enough time for a nice date out on the town with free babysitting 3 times a month! Sometimes my husband and I would just drive somewhere and talk. It was nice to have some time together, but without the worry of finding a sitter or financial strain of paying one. And it was fun to get to know the other children better when it was their turn to come to our house. (The kids definitely enjoyed getting together as much as we did).

Time passed. We eventually move and were able to afford sitters from time to time. Then our girls were old enough to watch our younger ones. About 5 years ago, I found a new need -- help for projects that are too difficult to tackle alone or too time consuming to ever fit in. I was telling a good friend of mine about the babysitting co-op and mused about how nice it would be to form a work group of friends to take turns helping each other with huge projects. I left it at that, but her mind started to work.

A few days later, she called me and said, "Let's do it." Several of us had small children still at home during the day, so we figured if one person could watch all of the children one week, the others could get together and work. We'd rotated house to house for where the work was done and who would babysit. We started out with 6 women involved, but found that the one babysitting felt left out on all the fun -- not that watching the children wasn't fun, but being together with a bunch of friends is wonderful too. So we decided just to let the children join us. We'd just keep them occupied in a room or yard playing. The co-op work group was born!

You'd be amazed at all we've accomplished over the years. Three of us have been constant in the group while others have come and gone - - many left because they've moved and have formed their own work groups in their new towns. We get together every other Wednesday morning from 9:00 to noon. The only rules are that you can't worry about anyone seeing your house dirt or clutter and no one judges when they see what work is to be done. At times, we've taken detours on going to each other's homes and have helped out someone else in need -- whether it's someone in the midst of a move, has had something tragic happen in their lives and can't emotionally deal with the mess their left with. One of us usually just tells them we have a group of friends who love to do projects together and are willing to come in and help. Sometimes they let us do it and it's wonderful to see what we can accomplish is such a short time.

Today, my friends came to my house and helped me dig up some pampas grass (or as a gardening site says, is "a landscaping quick fix you'll live to regret.") It had just grown to monstrous proportions and was no longer pretty. We had two huge bundles of it and much of it had dried and looked just horrible. I knew I couldn't do it alone and wondered if we could even do it in a few hours together. What's wonderful about the work group is that everyone has different opinions, expertise, and hopes. What one person may deem impossible (me, thinking after seeing the HUGE pile of leaves, roots, dirt clods, etc. dug up that there was no way we could haul that back over and over with the wheel barrow to the back of the property) may seem totally doable to another ("No problem," said my friend, "I'll do the wheel barrow runs" as she made the pile somehow disappear). I can start a project thinking I know how to do part of it, but will run into a block, not knowing what to do next. When I have friends there to bounce off ideas and who may have had experience with this at their home, it's wonderful because it helps me know what to do next and gives me the motivation to continue -- not stop and go start something else.

Some of the projects we've done over the past few years have been:

Cleaning out & organizing cabinets, drawers, pantries, garages, CD & dvd collections, and books

Overhauling children's bedrooms & toy closets

Deep cleaning before relatives come to visit (such motivation!)

Washing all the windows in a house inside and out

Weeding (oh joy!), placing weed cloth, and planting bushes, flowers, and trees

Painting bedrooms, kitchens, cupboards, and even counter tops!

Sealing up grains for food storage in vacuum seal bags

Packing up friends when they move

Putting new shelf paper in all cupboards and drawers

Going through boxes from the attic from years back

Scrapbooking

Going through children's school work, papers, artwork, etc., and putting them into binders

Sewing & Mending (this is one I chose because I hate to sew, so they sewed for me!)

Taking old appliances to the scrap recycler (another one I chose because they have pick-ups and I don't)

Bringing in landscaping materials and spreading around the yard (again, no pick-up!)

Decorating Christmas trees

Taking down Christmas decorations

Wrapping Christmas gifts

Polishing woodwork

Chopping wood

Shoveling and preading gravel around a pond

Making crafts for gifts

Shopping (yes, believe it or not, one friend can't stand shopping, so we go pick out clothes for her -- another friend didn't know where to start in decorating her husband's new office, so we shopped for furniture and decorations -- very fun!)

We often have little celebrations together too. If it's someone's birthday, we'll often potluck after we finish and eat together (or just take off for lunch afterwards). At Christmas time, we each bring a small gift, some goods for brunch or lunch and do a little exchange at the end. Always fun.

I can't tell you how many times I've walk by a project that everyone's done for me and felt an overwhelming sense of joy, awe, and appreciation. It's so wonderful to see some monstrous, yet nagging and necessary task get done that I just couldn't do on my own. My friends have said the same over and over too.

Get yourself a group of friends to co-op with you. It's a wonderful thing.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Hmmph!

I just finished posting what has taken me well over a week to complete -- my last day on the Beachbody trip filming Slim Series Express. Since I began the past earlier and saved that draft, it posted as last Monday's post instead of today. I just wanted to let you know it's there in case you just look to the top to see what's new. Just scroll down under the Water post. The top pic is just like this one. See you there!

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Water Water Water Water Water Water Water Water Water

When I was in 1st grade, I wrote a poem (on that thin, tan, easy to tear with your eraser paper that had room at the top for a drawing) called "Water Water Water . . ." (written across the top from one end to the other with waves drawn underneath traveling across the paper). The poem was simple:

I love water
Water loves me
Water is really just a sea.

Now I love to write and would love to be have the talent for writing poetry. I remember a kid in my high school English class, who didn't necessarily get the greatest grades, but he was dubbed a poet. The teacher talked about his natural poetic abilities. I wished I could do what he did. I can recognize it in others, but can't drum it up in myself, as sad at that is. However, I do like this poem I wrote long ago. Perhaps I like it because my mom saved it? (and it's easy enough to memorize?) There are some truths in it though that I even understood as a child. I love water. My body loves water. Does water love me? I'm not so sure about that, but water really is just a sea and continues to become a sea, as well as become a part of me.

I've been thinking about water lately, that I only drink it when my body is crying out for it -- when I first wake up in the morning. I feel like a wilting plant when I stumble into the bathroom sink for that first drink. Once I get a full glass in my body, I feel alive. I stand straighter. I feel like I can begin my day. I also drink while I exercise. The more vigorous the workout, the more I drink, but I always drink at least one glass full -- maybe 2 or 3. And afterwards, I want another glass. I never think "I wish I could eat . . . " -- I'm always just plain thirsty.

Once I get some food in my body, I tend to forget about my need for water. Do I not need it as much because I'm nourishing my body in other ways? Or am I burying that ability for my body to communicate thirst when certain foods enter my body? I'm not sure. But some days, I cry out for water all day long and wonder what's going on. I wonder if my body always needs that much and I'm just not able to tell. Or I'm just not interpreting my body's messages correctly.

Either way, I know my body needs and appreciates water. My body runs better when I drink it throughout the day.

I also wonder if we as prosperous Americans eat more than our bodies need. I've read in Yoga Journal that some approach eating with the need to not completely fill up, but just to become partially full, enough for energy and nourishment. Bryan Kest (yoga instructor from Santa Monica in one of my favorite yoga dvds ) wrote in one of his newsletters that "the single most important aspect of a healthy diet is NOT overeating." He has a 4 Step Program to dietary health and balance in which the first step is to only fill your stomach to 2/3 of its capacity, with the second step being to eliminate ALL between meal snacking. This is getting a little away from my thoughts about water, but when I read this from Bryan's Power Yoga newsletter a few years ago, it was a new thought to me. Dr. Fuhrman advocates no snacking in his Eat to Live plan too. I call myself a grazer and think I need to eat all day long. But I know that isn't the case. And I think other healthy habits may be key -- being active AND drinking plenty of water.

A few summers ago, I went on a Pioneer Handcart Reenactment Trek with about 100 teenagers. For 4 days, we pushed handcarts with our tents, clothing, cooking gear, and water up and down mountains. It was tough and wonderful at the same time. I learned some interesting things about the need for water and food while out there.

The first day of the trek, we had all eaten breakfast at home. We were also told to bring a sack lunch to eat just before we hit the trail. I was eating raw foods well at that time and made sure the man who organized and invited me to be a "ma" on the trek knew that I relied on my raw food diet for health and would need to bring my own. I packed up Ziploc bags by day and meal. I added a few fruits or dehydrated snacks in case I needed more. Everyone else ate simple meals of corn mush or oatmeal for breakfast, peanut butter sandwiches for lunch, and some meat & potatoes kind of dinner each night. There was also a ration of snacks on the handcart for everyone to eat throughout the journey. We were told that the snacks were to last the whole trek and not to eat them all the first day or two. There were crackers, dried fruit, and something else that I can't remember, but do know I wasn't interested in eating.

Back to the first day, everyone had eaten a plentiful breakfast and a bountiful lunch. These were meals from home and no one scrimped on these meals. They knew it would change once we got on the trail. We started up the mountain and climbed for a few hours. Every time we stopped, all the kids ran to the snack box to see what they could eat. They were hungry. They needed some food to keep them going. They had plenty to eat earlier, but they needed more. They'd been working hard and needed more to continue. As the hours passed and dinner was near, they still wanted to grab from the snacks, reminding each other that it was supposed to last the whole 4 days (and realizing they were eating more than a day's share in just one afternoon). I also got into my ziploc bag. I ate some of their dried fruit. I was hungry too.

The next day everything changed though. After a simple dutch oven dinner, a good night's rest and very light breakfast, we were on the trail again, working hard. You'd think that while we were running on less food and were exerting more energy, we'd dip into the snack reserve even more. But that didn't happen. With less in our bodies and more physical work to do than we ever do at home, we weren't even hungry. Whenever we'd stop the handcarts, we'd run for the water. All we ever wanted was water. The snacks were never depleted as once suspected because we weren't ever hungry. Our bodies needed water and lots of it. We didn't care where the water came from either. The first day, most of us were strangers and we opened our own water bottles and drank in private. That all changed too. Whoever found his or her water first, took a few drinks, then offered it to the person nearby. We were passing around our water constantly. (I mentioned this in passing to the medic when filling up our water jugs one night and he said "You shouldn't be doing that -- you could get sick from sharing drinks" but he just didn't get it. The bonds we were making surpassed any concern for illness and the drive for water was far too strong to stop and think about another person's germs.

This was interesting for me to learn -- with less food in our working bodies, we wanted water, not more food. I wonder at home now if my kitchen wasn't fully stocked and ready to feed me and if I weren't snacking throughout the day, if I would actually be more in tune with my body and just want water until I was truly hungry again. I never want food when I'm exercising. Not that wanting food is a bad thing. I just think most of us think we need food far more than we actually do.

Dr. Fuhrman says that we rarely experience true hunger. I'll write about that some other day.

I'll also finish up my last day report on the Beachbody trip. I've written most of it, but it's taking longer than the others. I can't find some of the Video Fitness posts I'd written at the time, so I've been gathering info from e-mails, scattered VF posts and from memory. I should be able to finish that by the end of the week.

Back to water -- drink up! You probably need it more than you realize. I'll do the same and will let you know how my snacking goes. Even though grazing is a fun word, I think I need to be less like the cow and let my body run on less than a full tank. TTFN!

Monday, May 12, 2008

Filming Slim Series Express w/Debbie Siebers -- Last Day Details

This is my last post about my trip to film Slim Series Express with Debbie Siebers and Beachbody (aka "the trip of a lifetime" -- for a video fitness enthusiast, that is!) I'll probably post later on about my QVC trip with Debbie too, but I'll wait a bit so I can balance out my blog with other things too. I haven't talked nearly enough about food lately. Can't forget that! :) I have more recipes to share, topics to discuss, progress to tell about with my periodization fitness plan, etc. Not to mention family talk. I do have fun news to share about my children too.

Day 3 -- My first plan was to go right to the studio to see the other workouts (Cardio Core and 6 Minute Abs) filmed, then meet my friend (my former boss from 17 years ago) for lunch, but I saw on our filming day that we didn't actually start filming until about 11:00 even though we got there at 8:00. So I switched plans with my friend to meet for breakfast instead. That way I'd arrive at the studio just about the time they were starting to film.

My friend picked up Jocelyn and me from the hotel and took Jocelyn to the studios (and it was kind of sad to see Jocelyn talking with the main camera guy outside as we left -- I felt like I was missing out on the fun!) But I hadn't seen my friend in years and was truly glad for the time we had together. I later found out that Jocelyn got a quick tour of Andrea Ambandos' trailer and got to see what the producer sees. Fun!

We had a super scrumptious breakfast and visited for a few hours. After seeing how nice everyone at Beachbody was to Jocelyn's friend on our Infomercial day, I asked my friend if she'd like to see how they film an exercise video.

So she came back to the studio with me, I introduced people as I saw them and she stayed for over an hour while they filmed Cardio Core. We even took pictures together, along with everyone else. It was so much easier to be watching Monica and Kali exercise than it was to be under those hot lights. (But I'll admit it was hard to keep quiet during each take too:)) -- There was a doorway onto the set that I usually stood in to watch Debbie, Kali, and Monica. Most everyone else just watched them on the TV screen a few feet from the doorway (which was fun too because you could see how Andrea was cutting from one camera angle to another). But I figured I could see that when I get the video - -I wanted to see them live!

There was also a big opening where three of the cameras were - -that's where the cue cards and any other lights crew guys were. But most of us were on the left side by the doorway. I wanted to take a picture of it all going and could have attempted it w/o a flash, but if it had accidentally flashed, I could have been in BIG trouble because it would have interrupted the take and would have made a lights guy think a light had blown. So I just watched. (Jocelyn was more daring though and got a few pictures -- yay!)

At one point, Ronni (the make-up/hair woman pictured below) had an accident that she thought may have messed up a take. Her giant make-up bag was on a shelf of the rolling cart that held the TV we watched and it wasn't up up far enough on the shelf, so it came down crashing -- make up all over the place, etc. She felt awful, but no one filming seemed to notice the sound and they kept going.

Ronni had an assistant that day -- I can't remember her name, but she really stood out. She was probably 6 feet tall, had long (extensions), bright (dyed) red hair, dressed very vibrantly and had tatoos on her shoulders that looked like she had leopard skin. She was really nice and showed me how she'd glued little jewels all over her cell phone (my daughters would love it!) Someone mentioned that Ronni uses her every time when there's a bigger crew and I later saw Ronni's and someone else's names on the credit for some other Andrea Ambandos workout dvds when I got home - - I thought that must be her.

Jocelyn had told me that morning that Shaun T (no one called him Shaun T there, though -- just Shaun) from Hip Hop Abs was going to be on the set today. I hadn't heard much about him except this this was going to be a new series for Beachbody and that he looked a lot like Will Smith. I kept watching for someone who might be him as they filmed Cardio Core. At one point, 2 black men walked in and watched a bit. During a break on the set, Debbie walked over and hugged one of them. I wondered if that might be Shaun? He didn't really look like Will Smith in any way. He dressed more formal than for fitness. But he knew Debbie and I was curious.

After the filming began again, I thought, "You're only here once -- you might as well go introduce yourself to Debbie's friend." I was just curious how she knew him. Plus it was fun meeting people there. So I walked over and started talking to him. I told him who I was, that I was in the workouts from the day before, that I was a stay at home mom in the northern part of the state, married with 6 children, etc. He told me that he was Debbie's business partner and that his name is Kerry Gordy. I asked him about their business since Debbie had mentioned she had a fitness clothes line and he explained to me that her personal training and fitness videos are just the beginning of Debbie's business -- that gets her name out there and her reputation for knowing fitness. Then they go from there. She had co-written two cookbooks -- Energy Boost

and Nutritional Makeover. He talked about some digital fitness plans or something more technicologically advanced than just a website fitness monitor -- more like something you use your cell phone for ??? I can't remember. I wasn't following him on everything, but it was fun to meet him and share worlds since mine is so vastly different in my rural neck of the redwoods. Later, when I was out to dinner with Anna, Debbie and the rest of the cast, somehow Kerry came up and the fact that I was talking to him for awhile. And Anna said, "Do you know who Kerry Gordy is?" and I didn't. She said he's the son of Barry Gordy, who is the founder of Motown. Pretty cool! So here I was introducing myself to meet another friend and he'd grown up around people like Diana Ross, Michael Jackson and Stevie Wonder. I later found this article talking about when he and Debbie joined forces. Guess I didn't do my homework prior to the trip! :)

Back to finding Shaun, a little while later, I was walking through the area with sofas where you first walk into the studio and saw this big muscle-y guy. I thought, "Now that has to be Shaun!" So I asked the nearest Beachbody worker and they confirmed it was him. Now I didn't know anything about his new workouts and really had no interest in doing anything hip-hoppish. But I wanted to meet him if he was there. So I went over and started talking to him. I was immediately struck by his VIVACIOUSNESS! He is so full of life and laughter. When he talks, he laughs, he moves, he jams here and there. He's tons of fun. He laughs while he talks a lot. It's so infectious. I knew he'd be fun to work out with. I honestly wouldn't be drawn to the Hip Hop Abs workouts at all if I hadn't met Shaun. I can't even describe how much magnetism this guy has. I asked him if his workouts were doable for someone like me who hasn't been to a dance club since before hip hop even came out! And he said, "Sure!" and started telling me how he breaks it down so anyone can do it. He told me that before this project, he traveled around teaching other fitness instructors how to teach this kind of workout. He's even trained internationally (and talked about one country somewhere in the far east that treated him like a prince, waited on him, carried him, etc. -- as he laughed and laughed).

I hope it comes across in the workouts because he is SO MUCH FUN to be around.

It was really cute a little while after we talked, we were sitting around in the little lounge area of the studio and someone mentioned that I have 6 kids -- his mouth just dropped . . . and stayed dropped for a good few minutes. I just kept laughing and he shook his head like "no way" (or maybe "no one in their right mind would do that") -- I told him I was 42, then asked how old he was -- I think he said 24 or some unreal # like that for being so successful at what he does. I told him, "Oh, You're just a baby!" and he gave this big grin.

Later, Shaun and Heather (Carl Daikeler's assistant) were sitting on the sofa (shown in the bottom pic of Shaun's rehearsal below) watching his Hip Hop Abs workouts on the laptop (still in production at this point, so this was new for Shaun to see). I joined them and we watched for a bit. Looked like a ton of fun! Later I realized that I didn't have any pictures of Heather, so she and Shaun posed (of course in some crazy dancing position) for me. I later saw in one of Shaun's Hip Hop Abs workouts, that he had a move that he said was from his good friend Heather. Fun that they're close friends. Just a little trivia on Heather. She was in the test group for Slim in 6 and is in the infomercial seen at the end of many Slim Series dvds wearing a red polka dot bikini -- she's also trying on clothes in a store on that infomercial. AND her sister, Ashley, is in one of the Slim Series workouts -- I think it's Firm It Up.

Some of Shaun's cast members showed up and I got to meet a few of them too (mainly remember the Asian girl who is the modifier in all his workouts and the blonde one with lots of curly hair). They were all really nice. I got a few pictures of them rehearsing in the break room before they had to go film. There were huge Hip Hop Abs signs on the floor behind the set. The set guys said they were going to transform Debbie's set a bit to film this last Abs workout for Shaun. We left before it went up though.

I went back and watched some more of Monica and Kali's workout with Debbie. Their last one to film was 6 Minute Abs. They had to do it four or five times to get the timing just right -- Debbie had to finish her small stretch, words, and everything within that 6 minute frame. She had planned to wear this really cute top that was a bright purple color (I'm partial to purple, if you haven't already noticed). The pants had a purple band and red band at the waist line. It was really cute. But once she lied down to stretch and see how things were going to work, it started bugging her because the pant leg would come down a lot towards her knee and show her leg. It just didn't look as sharp as the pant leg staying put. She said that her own black pants didn't do that (which I thought was pretty amazing -- I thought all pants did that). So they let her change her pants to the black ones, but now her pants didn't tie in with the cast member's tops.I can't remember if it was Monica or Kali, but one of them was wearing red to match the red on her band, but since that was gone, they had them change so that there wasn't that red standing out -- (and both changed so their tops would still match in style). If you look at the top pic of Shaun's rehearsal, there are buckets of clothes and a wardrobe rack with hanging clothes. The rack has the clothes chosen for each workout with our names on them. The buckets are extras (that they had us try on when they made the wardrobe choices). This is what they went back to for changes in Monica's and Kali's tops. If you look at the first pic in this post, Debbie has her make-up and hair done with the bright purple top and the pants with the colors on the band. But in the workout pics right here, she has on plain black pants (but no ankle showing! :))

Debbie had told us on our rehearsal day (which was the day after her rehearsal with Kali and Monica) that her abs were REALLY sore from doing that workout 4 or 5 times in a row. They did the same thing on the filming day and you could tell in the facial expressions of Kali and Monica that it was TOUGH to do those final reps. I felt bad for Monica because she was in the same position as I had been with the stretch video -- she couldn't see what Debbie was doing. Only she had to keep up with rep speed precisely. So she turned her head to the right through most of her reps, which must have been a strain. But she kept up with Debbie!

After they were finished, we talked with the crew a bit and went outside and talked with Andrea (Ambandos, the producer of these and MANY other exercise videos throughout the past decade if you missed my other post about her. I took a picture of her in front of her trailer. She gave me her business card and told me it was really great working with me. I told her it was REALLY tempting to just move down to L.A. and work with her for. She told me, "That would be great!" Every once in awhile, I look at her business card and think, "Wouldn't that be fun."

Down the hall, we saw a catered lunch set up in the big room where we filmed the infomercial (and where we'd had our catered lunch the day before). We weren't going to eat in there this time, however. It was for the crew and the Hip Hop Abs people. We might have eaten with them if they'd taken longer to film, but since they ended earlier, our dinner plans with Debbie at the end of filming got bumped up to a late lunch and we all waved good-bye and headed out to the Daily Grill restaurant.

Shaun was walking around, kind of pouting (not really, but in a fun-loving way) because he wasn't going to eat with everyone else. He was dying from hunger because he didn't want to eat before showing those abs in his video. I guess they do close-ups on his abs so he can show which ab muscle certain moves are trying to target. I doubt I'd notice a difference in "before eating" abs and "after eating" on him though. He's pretty toned. I even asked him at one point if he lifted weights too (his arms are HUGE) and he said he didn't. He must do a lot of push-ups then. I also learned (if you want to know Shaun trivia) that he LOVES fast food and likes to eat a lot of it. I've seen since his videos have come out that he has a Fast Food Survival Guide on Beachbody's website. He must truly love the stuff.

We drove over to the hotel and they told us we could freshen up if we wanted to first. Jocelyn and I were fine since we just played all morning. But Kali and Monica went up and changed. So did Debbie. They all looked a step up from the rest of us -- heels, cute tops, a bit more glitz. Monica and I just looked at each other like "oh well" and Anna said "I have to crawl on the floor with cue cards -- I have to dress like this" :). We had a really fun dinner. Anna had "Uncle Carl's" credit card and told us to feel free to order whatever we wanted. It was truly liberating because here I'd been watching what I'd been eating for those past few weeks, knowing I'd be filmed soon -- especially while down there. I could eat whatever I wanted. I toyed with the idea of ordering chicken pot pie (childhood favorite) but knew there would be dairy in it and didn't want to deal with those effects, so I ordered pasta. There were many appetizers that Debbie loved -- seafood that I had no desire to taste, but did try a few just to be a good sport.

Debbie told us about her social life, her workouts, a little of everything. We got to know Kali and Monica a bit better. And, of course, Anna is always a blast to talk to. She was fun throughout the whole trip. She'd tell stories about Beachbody -- about Tony and P90X or Chalene in Turbo Jam. It was really fun to hear all the fitness video trivia since it's been a big part of my life for over a decade. Anna is the kind of person that you feel like you've known your whole life the first time you talk to her. I could talk to her for hours and never need to stop.

It was also really great to get to know Jocelyn. I'm sure I would have had fun with Kali or Monica too, but Jocelyn and I really gelled well (is "gelled" a word? Sounds fine, looks strange!) She was in Kindergarten when I was a Senior in high school, but this many years later, it didn't seem like we had much of an age difference at all. I loved learning her mid-western ways and I think she had fun with me too. Jocelyn and I ended up sharing a room on our QVC trip, which was really fun -- like having a college roommate again. We e-mail all the time and hopefully will get to see each other again somehow.

After dinner, Debbie had to leave (her limo had arrived).She told us that it's hard to make friends like this and just have us go. We took pictures outside the restaurant then bid her farewell. I didn't know if we'd talk much again, although she said she'd see us on the Beachbody chat. I never was able to figure out how to get on the chat, but Debbie later e-mailed me and we've e-mailed off and on since. I also got to go to QVC with her and got a card from her at Christmas. It was fun to get to know her. I'd only hoped to get to talk to her for a few minutes if I were selected. It was fun to find out she was from a family of 8 children, that she had small-town roots, that she's close to my age, and that's she's as real in real life as on the screen in my family room for so many mornings.

The whole experience was more than I could have hoped for. I told my husband that it was just fun each day to be surrounded by people who loved their jobs and who loved life. They were all so friendly and wonderful.

That night, Jocelyn, Kali and I met at the hotel jacuzzi and just relaxed and relished in what we'd just experienced. Monica was out running (training for a marathon, I think), so she didn't come. But it was nice to just sit and talk, share what we'd done when we submitted our videos for the contest and to be amazed together that we had this opportunity.


Friday, May 9, 2008

The Value of Yesterday

Yesterday had more value than I could have ever imagined for one family in particular. It proved to be the last day with their husband and father. After a wonderful sunny day yesterday, we found out late last night that a friend of ours died of a heart attack. He was in his early 40s like us, a good friend of my husband's, dedicated father of 4, had just returned from a bike ride, and suffered a heart attack. That's it. That was his last day.

Here I was wondering what May 8th would bring, if it could become a memorable one and it forever will be for that family. I'll remember it too. I imagine they've relived their last words and moments spent yesterday with him. I did the same with the last few conversations I've had with him, even though weeks and months before. Those are the moments to cherish. We don't realize how important these moments are until they are no longer available.